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BDSM History Debunkers
Debunkers and Myth Claimers!
There are many arguments out there regarding which group beginnings in BDSM are true, and to whether a person’s claimed background is true if they are unable to provide proof, witnesses, public timelines, etc. I’ve read some of these articles, visited the debunking web sites, and tried to figure out how they feel they can be so blanketed in righteousness. I’ve watched and been the victim of some of these chest-beating apes as they tried to drive me into the ground with claims that if I could not prove my history with names, places, dates, etc., then I must be a liar. Despite the fact I did offer dates and locations, but withheld the names, seemed to secure with them that I was a liar. Almost everything these debunkers claim is based solely on their own unique portion of the people joining the lifestyle (like gay males or male leather), their own unproven wordage, and their claim that since they attended one meeting or event which they could name others at, then they were righteous and real. These debunkers tend to deny all others who come into the lifestyle based on their own histories and facts they have picked up or been told. Simply said, the debunkers feel their account is the only account that is real or true. So, if you are not gay male leather and you did not belong to a motorcycle group, then you did not have any BDSM-type of group history prior to 1970s.
I believe this is another instance of “don’t believe everything you are told or read” and “don’t believe it just because it’s posted on a web page.” The debunkers are almost exclusively self-proclaimed “Old Guard” historians who seem to think a few loose facts and a web site or two prove their claim. I, and many others, do not claim “Old Guard” does not exist or that “Old Guard” histories are fake. Yet, the debunkers do not hesitate to tear down anyone claiming a history other than theirs, or who claim to have been part of it. The debunkers make no consideration for anyone who might have joined a “straight” BDSM group. The debunkers make no consideration for the possibility a “straight” group may have copied something they heard or learned from another group or stories about leather groups. They make no consideration for possibilities of copied titles or hierarchy, or for groups that told their members a history that may or may not have been true.
Point in fact: BDSM Myths Debunked and other web sites are opinion only! Most are based on 1950s-1970s male leather group histories which are gay males only. Most are unable to prove anything related to their own claims other than touting a name here or there or personal unproven writings they have come across. Most do not take into account copycats or BDSM straight social groups that may have tried to copy some of their hierarchy or any variance at all. In deed, some tout being the only BDSM actively practicing in the
It is clearly unreasonable and illogical to think there was no equivalent straight BDSM play or groups among straights, and that gay leather or Old Guard was all there ever was to the BDSM history prior to the 1970s. Case in point: Betty Page was exploring BDSM in film, magazines, and photos in the 1950s. This proves there were straight men seeking BDSM materials and play at the same time Old Guard history was supposedly being created. However, as you know, this type of interest among straight men was guarded and private and has remained so over all these years. Only lately, has the interest of straight men and women for BDSM been exposed. The only proof being the magazines and films, but at least that is real proof that straight men enjoyed BDSM activities in those days. Do you really think no one shared these activities in small groups?
So, how does one prove what is true when it comes to a history in BDSM? Histories tend to be mostly oral with some minuet written materials. Most of BDSM history among straight groups is oral, because no one wants illegal activities in writing. Most groups (sexual, non-sexual, gun fanatics, patriots, etc.) did not want their names listed on subscriptions after the Communist scares, let alone a membership list or minutes showing their affiliation to BDSM. Plus, most people tend to believe histories that are told to them or that they read, without any definitive proof. Even written histories are doubted, the Bible being a prime example.
In the 1960s, quite a few “straight” households joined the hippies “free sex” attitudes in the country by holding “swinger” parties. The new series “Swingtown” shows a warped presentation of this “hidden” sub-culture, but it does present an interesting premise that backs the line of thought here. Until recently, hardly anyone knew about the “key” parties or subtle “swinging” of the 1960s where a husband and housewife would attend a party, throw their keys into a bowl, and the housewife would go home with whoever picked their keys. If this “swinging” culture among “straights” was kept so hush-hush, can you imagine how hushed BDSM was kept?
When you think about it, gay leather histories have very little in the way of written “proof,” because even written documentation is not solid proof. Anyone could provide a written set of minutes with unknown names that maybe include their own and a date from the 1950s, and then claim it was gospel truth. But is it? Anyone can create such a paper these days. Oral histories are passed down, but what if the oral history you received was not accurate, or was fanciful? You always believed it, you believed it as it was told to you without question because you were not there when it originated, you had no reason to doubt the person providing the information, and there is no proof that the information was not accurate except for the lone word of another person (a debunker). The debunker is not your friend, acquaintance or known to you in any way. Who do you believe? Do you let this lone “debunker” person discount what you learned and what you believed?
You have to ask yourself, what is the motive behind the debunker who jumps on your every word demanding proof, while touting his own unverfied proof as the gospel? What is the purpose of the debunker’s attack? Glory for himself? Domination over others at any cost? Just being an asshole? Trying to discredit anyone who doesn’t agree with him? I’m sure we’ve all met that type before. Does the debunker need to justitify his own existence and experience over anyone else’s? Why? The only reason I can fathom is “ego” - and we meet a lot of ego-driven people in this lifestyle. Are we going to let the ego of a debunker destroy any histories that do not coincide with the debunker’s own beliefs? This reeks of the days of Christian crusades and slaughtering anyone who does not agree with one idea or belief. I wonder, during the crusades, how many religions that were alike but not exactly the same disappeared and will never be able to prove their histories?
I think we can all form a logic deduction here and assume:
(1) There had to be other groups practicing BDSM that were not gay or leather; and
(2) There had to be straight BDSM groups with no connection to gay groups, since gay lifestyles were still frowned upon in those days by many; and
(3) Undoubtedly, if there were straight groups then chances are there was little-to-no connection or carryover of participation between straight and gay groups at that time; and
(4) The BDSM lifestyle was considered illegal or prostitution at that time, so straight groups, just like many gay groups, were underground and not known well to outsiders; and
(5) In the 1950s-1970s, gay groups were pretty much underground and hardly anyone outside of gays knew about gay bath houses or gay BDSM play. All that information came out later when the internet became more active - therefore it is not illogical to concede that “straight” BDSM groups were also underground rather than non-existent; and
(6) Straight people have no reason to “come out” and declare their kinks publicly, whereas some gays like to flame and brag about their eccentricities as part of their “coming out” which may lead to leather groups being more willing to tout their participation than straight groups; and
(7) It is not unreasonable to think there were probably some copycat carryovers from the Old Guard stories to the straight BDSM groups that formed in that time or later; and
(8) It is not unreasonable to think straight BDSM groups may have based their hierarchy along the same equivalency as anything they heard about in connection to gay BDSM groups, or may even have based hierarchy on lodge affiliation titles like HighMaster and GrandMaster or Grandpoopa, for all it matters; and
(9) Considering how small many straight BDSM groups are today and how they quickly dissolve and fade away, it is not unreasonable to believe it was even harder in the 1970s for a straight group to thrive and gather members. Most groups probably did not last very long which makes proven histories very unlikely …
If someone joined a straight BDSM group prior to the 1970s or 1980s, it’s not unreasonable to think someone within the straight group may have had a brother or relative who was connected to a gay leather group, and it is not unreasonable to believe they might steal some tidbits, titles or hierarchy information from a gay group or fraternal lodge for identification and organizing within a straight BDSM group. Many groups today are based on stolen ideas, such as Black Hat ladies (from Red Hats) or the many diet groups who have taken ideas from Weight Watchers and Jenny Craig. It is also reasonable to believe titles from lodges or other groups may have been used within these groups, especially with the popularity of masons, elks and other private men’s groups who used such titles.
In conclusion, I’m not saying that “Old Guard” or gay leather histories do not exist or that they are false. I am not trying to “debunk” the Old Guard or leather histories. I’m asking, “Why are these self-proclaimed debunkers holding these histories out like Bibles while trashing the straight BDSM histories?” Are they just stroking their egos at someone else’s expense? And, are we going to allow it to continue? Or are we going to challenge these “debunkers” and expose their grand egos?
Another television show attacks BDSM
Shark’s “sicko” “wack job” “freak” attack
Again, television ventures into the realm of BDSM with nothing good to say. This week’s episode of Shark includes a Hugh Hefner party complete with the murder of an innocent singer by a lesbian stalker. Sounds like they are trying to compete with one of my favorite shows, Nip/Tuck. At least Nip/Tuck doesn’t try to promote itself as saving society from the BDSM perverts.I guess since Hugh Hefner parties were part of the show, they had to make sure they threw in a sleazy, gal-beating, wack job that is into BDSM. They cannot promote Hugh Hefner’s goodness without tainting the lifestyle a bit with whips and chains.
This episode of Shark looks for their killer, Rupert, who just happens to have a dungeon in his basement complete with floggers, bondage cuffs, chains and whips. Of course, Rupert has to be a “sicko” and a “wack job” and a “freak” according to Sebastian Stark, lead attorney, because he has a dungeon and enjoys whipping, flogging, and “horror of all horrors” - SM.
The attorney’s investigating team walks into the cellar and sees all the “pervert’s” play equipment and immediately decide they have their man. The dungeon is filled with racks, suspension toys, a beautiful purple spanking bench, and a wall covered with very nice, very expensive, long braided floggers. I know the floggers are the expensive top of the line ones, because I have some just like them, and they cost quite a bit. In fact, everything in the room looked expensive, top quality, and even made me drool in envy. They even showed a video playing on a television screen with a gal wearing only nets who is bond, gagged, and being whipped.But there were no conversations about consensual adult play. Not a single one! We only hear about the sicko, wack job who set it up and uses it. As Det. Isaac Wright leads sweet little Madeline Poe down the stairs, he comments about the perversion she will see. But sweet Madeline chimes right back, “Don’t knock it till you try it?” That’s the only positive comment through the whole show.
The rest of show stomps our nasty little BDSM perversions right into the ground. Sebastian Stark asks suspected killer Rupert, “You kind of a freak Rupert?” To which Rupert answers, “Different strokes.” Another comment from Stark directed at Rupert, “You in a thong with a mace, in front of a jury?” A mace is a swinging studded hammerhead. Then Stark grins like the Cheshire Cat as if that is all it will take to hang him high! Honestly, I’ve never seen a mace in anyone’s BDSM toy bag, and I’ve been to a lot of lifestyle parties. A little later, Stark tells the team to find more dirt, more witnesses against Rupert so they string him up. Stark says if one person complained against the wack job, surely others have. And one of his team members chimes in with, “More girls, more boys, possibly farm animals.” This is so typical of television. Most television shows see us as perverts who abuse everyone with our bloody little play toys and who will stoop to farm animals because we are obviously depraved and without morals of any type. In the end, it isn’t the BDSM wacko after all, but rather a lesbian stalker killer - which does not make things any better!
Television gives such a bias view of BDSM. LA Law episode titled “Spanky and the Art Gang” has a dominatrix charged with murder, Law & Order: Special Victim’s Unit episode titled “Stocks and Bondage” shows a seedy underworld of sadomasochism, and Law & Order: Criminal Intent episode titled “Lonelyville” has a woman strangled while in Japanese rope bondage. I’ve only seen a rare few shows give BDSM or Mistress/slave relationships a true chance. One of the good shows is CSI: Las Vegas. I have to thank CSI: Las Vegas for their honest and unprejudiced portrayal of Lady Heather, a public dominatrix who is proud of her lifestyle choice. Lady Heather appeared in four episodes. The first was Slaves of Las Vegas, Lady Heather’s Box, Pirates of the Third Reich and The Good, the Bad, and the Dominatrix. I highly recommend these episodes. The show also gives prostitutes and escorts a break. I’ve enjoyed every episode of seductive connection between Gil Grissom and Lady Heather. And, Catherine Willows is the first to chime in and defend ladies of the night or women who make a living entertaining men. Perhaps that is because the character has worked that side of the street herself. The important thing here is – they give an honest view of the lifestyle without the immediate assumption that we are nutcases or wackos.Hey, does anyone remember a television series called “Profit.” It was about a REAL wack job who was rich, slept in a cardboard box, and was wicked with his step-mother - which is probably why the series ended. It was bit before it’s time and made the mistake of tickling the incest-taboo, and that didn’t go over well in the deep south Bible-belt areas. But it was a unique wack job show - and I liked it *grin*.Well, that’s my two-cent rant for the week. Why can’t we have a nice BDSM television series *big grin*? I bet there’s a whole bunch of perverts, sickos, wack jobs and freaks who would really enjoy it!
Rapunzel, Rapunzel, Let Down Your Golden Hair
Hair Fetish!
Hair fetish enthusiasts are abundant. And so is their given fetish – hair! It’s everywhere and everyone has it. Of all the fetishes for which to get addicted, hair is the most practical since you’ll never have to worry about it disappearing from public access or becoming unavailable or being out of view permanently. Hair is everywhere. It’s on heads, between the legs, on legs, on chests, under arms, on animals, on some fruits, on arms, on some bushes, cactuses and woods. It’s everywhere!
Rapunzel had magnificent long hair, fine as spun gold.
—The Grimm Brothers, Rapunzel
Trichophilia - This is a pubic hair or head hair fetish. Trichophiliacs like to stroke/smell/snip off and keep their partner’s hair. It also carries over into arm pit hair, hairy backs and people with lots of body hair, as well items that feel like human hair.
What brings about this newest topic? I had a surprising experience this past week. I was shopping, alone, late at night in a mall with underground parking. As you know, my long brown hair almost reaches my waist. I entered the parking lot elevator to go up two floors to the store level. A man entered the elevator at the same time as I did, and proceeded to step to the back of the elevator directly behind me. I practice safe measures especially when I am out alone, and it concerned me that he purposely stepped behind me and parked himself there. I pushed the button for the second floor, then slid my hand into my purse and grasped my gun. I have a carry-permit (CCW) and never travel unprotected. This was a very old and very slow elevator.As it squeaked its way upward, I felt the man take a step closer. I held my ground and watched for the door to open. In the next minute, he reached out and took hold of my hair – which elicited an over-excited reaction on my part. I pulled my gun, spun around, and shoved him against the back of the elevator with one motion. There we stood as the elevator door opened. I had my gun drawn and pointed at him, and he had a shocked look and his hands immediately went up in the air. One of his hands held a small pair of cuticle scissors. I backed out enough to block the elevator doors, and hollered at a counter girl to call security. The man pissed himself and started crying.Security arrived within seconds. It’s amazing how fast a waved gun can get a response. I put my gun away and told security he grabbed me by my hair in the elevator and had a pair of scissors in his hand. This prompted a trip to the security office and calling the police. By the time police arrived, about 10 minutes later, the man was sobbing uncontrollably and asking how he could make this right, and begging to clean himself up. He continued to sit in the wet pants with his hands trying to cover the huge wet spot, as police questioned both of us.
During the questioning and a background search, it became apparent that this little man (he was only 5’6” tall), named Joe, had a hair fetish which had gotten him in trouble more than once. But, this was the first time a lady with gun confronted his little fetish.After an hour of begging, sobbing, and piss-smelled air, the police asked if I wanted to press charges. Joe had intended to snip a piece of my hair for his collection. The scissors were not really dangerous since they could only make a ¼-inch stab wound. But I felt he needed to learn a lesson about invading a person’s space and property.I asked Joe to show me his wallet. The police were a little uncomfortable with this, and security just wanted Joe to leave the premises and never return, but they tolerated my inquiry. Joe had several credit cards and about $200 cash. I asked if his credit cards were maxed. Joe said, “No, I’m thrifty, a good saver.” I told police I would not press charges at this time, but I wanted Joe’s personal information and a copy of the incident report incase I decided to pursue it later; and I wanted them to remove and keep anything on Joe’s person that might be considered a weapon. The police took away the scissors, a pair of nail clippers, and his money clip. They made a copy of Joe’s driver license and the report for me, and told Joe to leave the premises. I told Joe to wait, because I would be escorting him to his car. I know a submissive little snippet when I see one. As we left that store, I told Joe he would be compensating me for my time and as a thank you for not pressing charges, so he would be taking me shopping. He readily agreed. First stop was a men’s store for replacement of the pissy clothes, then a men’s room for him to clean up. I could not stand the smell any longer. He chose the cheapest clothes in the store for the change. I knew I was going to have fun when he did that. Thrifty my ass … this boy was going to learn a steep lesson.Next stop was a hair salon. Joe paid for a wash, trim, hot condition, blow-dry and style, plus manicure and pedicure. I made him wait in a chair right beside me as they worked on my hair 
and nails. He was smiling and enjoying it – until the bill came for $176. He paid but he wasn’t smiling anymore. Then Joe accompanied me to a hair accessory store. I loaded a basket with hair brushes, ribbons, barrettes, clips, curlers, headbands, combs, and more. I even taunted him a bit by running the brush over my hair, and fluffing it constantly with my hands, telling him how good it smelled and how soft it was. The bill: $126. Next, the hat store. I enjoy hats and scarves and other head gear. I chose three hats, had them special boxed for mailing to my home, and stepped back while Joe paid - $324. One more stop before I let him off the hook! I walked him into the specialty knife store. I made him purchase me a set of heavy duty kitchen and home scissors, top of the line - $250. He was crying again as he paid for this last purchase with two different cards, because he was now at his limit on both. Then I made him carry my purchases to my car, made him hold out his hands and I slapped them like a bad little boy being scolded, and told him, “Never, never, never touch a woman again without her express consent!” And I made him repeat it ten times. Then I drove off.It was nice lesson for him that will present a constant reminder as he pays those credit card bills over the next few months, plus it cost him a lot less than a lawsuit or bail bond.
Hair fetishes can be a real problem if not controlled. A baggage handler at an airport got caught feeding his fetish by stealing hair from hairbrushes in the luggage. Hair fetish comes in many forms, not just head hair. Some people have armpit hair fetishes, or pubic hair fetish, or even hairy body fetishes.
I have callers who enjoy hair fetish fantasies where they clutch a woman’s hair, rub it up and down the cock, or jerk off into it, and then wash it and comb it out. Another caller likes to play beauty parlor. He has a unique sissy fetish that involves setting and curling the ladies’ hair, helping them under the hair dryers, and pampering them while they dry. There’s nothing wrong with hair fetishes, and in fact, hair play is very relaxing as well as arousing, as most people know.If hair fetish is one of your enjoyments, check out these interesting Links:
Rapunzel Long Hair website
http://www.angelfire.com/art/rapunzellonghair/rapunzellonghairarchive/
Rapunzel Syndrome – Hair Eating Disorder
http://ajp.psychiatryonline.org/cgi/content/full/162/2/242
Rapunzel FairyTale – Myths and Tales
http://www.ink.imagedjinn.com/rapunzel.htm
Pubic Hair Fetish
http://www.erosblog.com/2007/12/09/pubic-hair-fetish/
Hairy Men Fetish
http://www.universal-bear.com/exclusive.html
Hair Cutting Stories – Erotica
http://haircuttingstories.com/default.htm
Your Offer of Servitude (if you want to serve me)
YOUR COMMITMENT TO MISTRESS
Your offer of servitude. Over the years, I have been approached by many offering to serve me, but only a few have I found worthy. This is mainly due to incompatibility, cluelessness about BDSM or D/s Lifestyles, uncertainty of their desires, and/or uncertainty of their sincere choice to serve and obey another. If I select you, it is because I have found unique qualities within you that please and delight me, qualities so unique and individual that you were chosen above all the others. Your strongest quality must be the desire to serve and obey another, and through it you will garner the favor of my time. The stronger your desire and obedience is to me, the stronger my desire will be for you. You must choose me in as much as I choose you. This is not a one-sided relationship. It is a shared relationship in which we shall relate to each other on a level few ever know or share that will include desires and fetishes presented in an atmosphere with freedom and non-judgment in a controlled environment.
With servitude comes change. Trust is the key element of this relationship. I will strive to break down the barriers, walls, mannerisms and ideals that have been taught to you by the vanilla world, and you will obey. I will guide, control and direct your life, and you will obey. I will change your perceptions and views of the world you live in, make you a freethinker, and give you an acceptance that is deeper and more real than any you have ever felt, and you will obey. Some of these lessons and changes will be difficult and/or painful. You must trust me through the pain and difficulty, and know in your heart that through it I will lead you to a better life. Through your obedience, you will become a better person, live a happier more balanced life, live your deepest and wildest fantasies, and forever have a Mistress who will accept you. If this is what you seek, you have chosen well. If it is not, leave and waste my time no further.
Know and learn the life-style. This is not Hollywood’s version of some guy tied to a bed and having “vanilla” sex with his partner, nor is it what some may view as so-called “domination dungeon” play with Pamela Anderson look-a-likes donned in pvc and toting a whip. This lifestyle is called BDSM. It is not about looks. Your Mistress’ looks should not matter to you nor should yours matter to her. It does not matter if you are butt ugly or 500 pounds, or drop dead gorgeous. This lifestyle is not about society’s perceptions of beauty and social acceptance. It is a sexual art form that addresses D/s desires and fetishes through obedience, servitude and love. It allows a controlled environment to explore D/s desires and fetishes with freedom and non-judgment. The lifestyle is very diverse in its fetishes and methods of servitude and training. Some people are into pain while others are not. Some people are into an extreme depth of servitude based on 24/7 arrangements while others dabble part time. You do not have to participate in every aspect of BDSM or D/s to be part of it. But for my aspect of the lifestyle, you have to be strongly motivated toward obedience with servitude and denial of your own pleasures.
Make your Mistress your life and your first and only focus. Obedience is above all else. All the rules you learn will boil down to one rule: OBEY. And all the obedience, dedication and servitude boils down to one lesson: MISTRESS IS FIRST. First in your thoughts, your actions, and your heart. Only through obedience can your dreams and true acceptance be realized. Until you learn to be totally devoted to your Mistress, you will not be successful in the other actions or persons she directs to you. Again, trust is a key element. Trust must be blind, unequivocal and total. You must be willing and able to accept her rule over you. As your Mistress and in order to properly serve me, you must place me first before any other commitment you have including girlfriends or boyfriends, and family or friends. You cannot serve if you are married unless both you and your wife serve together. You can serve only one Mistress and must not have any contact with any other Mistresses or Masters outside my express permission during your application process. You will become part of my property to do with as I please. I am a life-style Mistress, in that I live the life-style every day of my life. BDSM is not a part-time kink for me, but a strong part of my life, my sexuality, and my personality. A Mistress doesn’t turn it on and off like a faucet. Whether she is in the bedroom, at work or out to dinner, she is still your Mistress and should be treated as such. This does not mean you are required to follow her everywhere on all fours and bark like a dog. It means you should always know she is in charge.
Your Mistress. Your Mistress can be your ideal confidant. She is the one with whom you can expose your very being without fear of judgment or ridicule. She makes you whole by allowing you the freedom to be who you are sexually, mentally and spiritually. And if you are fortunate enough to be one of the chosen and find favor with such a woman, you should give your servitude just as wholly: drop to your knees and give praise and adoration to Her each and every day that she allows you the pleasure of serving and knowing Her.
Your Contribution to the Household: You will not be the first or only slave with the household. Most Mistress have communal households meaning several slaves and Mistress work side by side to enjoy the rewards of what all bring. It also means there is always more than one slave and there is a hyerarchy among the slaves. Those who have been here the longest have more stature with the Mistress than those who are new or fleeting, and that is how it should be. All contribute to the household. If your idea of servitude is kissing Mistress’ feet for free room and board, you are sadly mistaken. Only novice beginners, such as pseudo-Mistresses or fake Mistresses, even attempt such balonga. A real lifestyle Mistress will never allow lazy or inconsiderate applicants to serve. You will hold a job. You will contribute to the household. You will share the benefits of what all in the household share. And you will offer a skill in addition to your contribution. That skill will not include your cock or tongue, but a real skill for the household such as carpentry, etc. Rare exceptions to this are made only when an applicant has unemployed income (retirement, SSI, etc.) and can trade a beneficial service like carpentry, home repairs, chef, etc., for the difference. This makes sharing of the home fair for all, and does not permit one to be a weight upon others or lazy when others are working hard to present a good home environment.
Can You Continue, Should You Continue: The most disrespectful move you can make is to waste a Mistress’ time. If you have read the communications and have decided you may not be able to fulfill such a strong commitment - move on now, and do not waste my time. If you want to pursue this relationship, prove your dedication. I await your response. Contact me directly at mistressrana_2000@yahoo.com
Mistress Rana
Summer Sex Survival
Summer Sex Hot ‘n’ Sweaty
The hot months of summer are approaching, hot and heavy. Nothing like a cold dip in the pool to cool off and feel great. And, when we’re feeling great, some hot, sweaty sex outside the pool followed by some cool wet pool sex, just adds to the fun.
Of course, oral sex is easy and enjoyable in a swimming pool. The gal or guy can sit on the side of the pool or on the steps half in and half out of the water, while the partner the eats it up. And no matter how nasty *ewww* your girlfriend’s pussy gets, the bleach water makes it clean and delectable. For the photos and dynamics of that little sex play, go to http://sexpositions.sexuall.org/ located at Sexuall.org. The site gives a full description for pool fun that includes anal, standing front and rear entry, oral and floating sex.Are you all alone in that great big pool? For the guys, those little water wing toys that keep non-swimmers afloat are great masturbators. Just blow the toy up to its fullest, lube the inner hole, lean back in a lounge chair and pump away. For gals, strip down to nothing and straddle a nice big pool noodle. Lean against the side of the pool and pull it back and forth between your legs, then give it a tight grip and cum and cum again.Summertime usually means people are wearing a lot less clothing, so getting a gal or guy stripped down to nothing isn’t as much of a challenge. A nice seductive way to get your hands on that guy or gal is to offer to rub oil or suntan lotion on them. Get a nice sensual rub going them creep closer and closer to those intimate areas. You might just get him or her hot with the stroking and end up stroking a lot more *grin*.
And it’s time for all that natty hair to go. You know I shave *big smile* leaving just a little landing strip. There nothing nastier looking that a big heap of hair hanging out the legs or over the top of that bikini bottom. For gals, if you’re brave and want to try it yourself that first time, (not recommended but we all do it don’t we?) then go to Bikini Wax 101 at http://www.canadianliving.com/style/beauty/bikini_waxing_101.php. But if you decide to have a professional do it for you that first time, here’s what to expect at http://beauty.about.com/od/hairremoval/ht/bikiniwax.htm then read How To ‘Brazilian Wax’ (Or, What to Expect When You Sign Up to Get One). And guys, hairy backs are definitely out, unless you have a girlfriend that likes that fetish. So, go get waxed before swimsuit time. Summer is hot enough without curling up next to a furry critter. Hairy backs are a much harder do-it-yourself job. You can try those unique over the shoulder razors like Razorba at http://www.razorba.com/ or a ManGroomer at http://www.mangroomer.com/?gclid=CMGe5q-zwpICFRwqagod7xW5bg but I would recommend a professional hair removal job by a professional. Whatever you do - DO NOT allow friends to wax you, especially if it’s the first time you’ve been waxed and/or the first time they’ve used wax removal.
If you want to enjoy a little humor about male hair waxing *LOL* watch this:
Now, I enjoy waxing my boys (slaves) myself. It’s part of that pain/pleasure thing Mistresses like to watch. First I have one of my experienced slave boys endure his bi-weekly waxing while a newbie watches. Since my experienced boy knows what to expect, he does flinch much or scream and kick during the removal. He just smiles. That puts the newbie at ease. Then we put the newbie on the table. We always strap him down for the first few pulls, telling him that it is so he doesn’t fall off the table while I spank, tease and torment him. That first pull on a long fat strip of wax cloth usually raises the newbie a foot off the table in spite of being tied down, and causes a ear-deafening scream. But that’s not the best part - it’s the anticipation, begging, crying and tensing for the second strip. *LOL*
I so enjoy summer torments for my boys. I make a big deal out of going on a trip to the hot springs at Sunnyside. When we get there I have all the boys get into their tight spandex swimming shorts, then I hand them all pairs of high heels. The sissies love it, but the big boys, my he-men just cringe. I tell them they have to walk all the way to the hot spring from camp (1/4 mile) in high heels. I buy the frilly pink slipper type with the pink poms on the toes. Sometimes, I add a pair of titty bobbles, all shiny and glittery with them. It’s a great laugh, especially when the fishers and campers drive buy and make “cow sounds” at them, or cruise real slow beside them and ask, “You girls need a lift?”
Another summer fun for me is making ALL the slaves wear flowered bikini tops under crisp white tee shirts. It’s so fun watching people, especially men, walking by, take that second glance and look real hard at their shirts.
Also, you know those little swizzle sticks they put in your summer tea. They make a fun game. Have the slaves strip down and give each one a swizzle stick, a piece of bubble gum, and hand full of the chocolate coin-shaped candies with the gold wraps (or you can use coin-shaped condom packets). You throw the coins into some nice tall grass, tell the boys to shove the swizzles up their ass, chew and stick the gum on the end of it, and whoever picks up the most coins using on the swizzle gets to spend alone time with Mistress. Just picture it in your mind! Lots of great entertainment.
Have a great summer — and CALL ME. Let’s laugh and chat about summer fun times!
Swinger Clubs & Lifestyle Fun in Las Vegas
What Happens in Vegas Stays in Vegas
I get a lot of inquiries about exotic places to visit while in Las Vegas. Here is a list of Swinger Clubs, Lifestyle Clubs and other unusual places you may want to check out. I’ll add to this list and repost it from time to time. If you ever visit Las Vegas, be sure to take a copy with you for a little extra fun while you’re slumming and whoring:
Lifestyle Fun in Las Vegas
(from BDSM to Mistress Groups
and Swinger Clubs to Gay / Lesbian Lounges)
What Happens in Vegas Stays in Vegas!
I get a lot of inquiries about exotic places to visit while in Las Vegas. Here is a list of Swinger Clubs, BDSM & Lifestyle Clubs, adult theaters, gloryholes, dungeon rentals and other unusual places you may want to check out:
Swingers Clubs
The Red Rooster: Mike & Chris, PO Box 12575, Las Vegas, NV 89112-0575; 702-456-5050; Email: info@vegasredrooster.com; Web: http://www.vegasredrooster.com/. On-premises parties for couples and gals.The Green Door: Donna, 953 E. Sahara Ave. B-20, Las Vegas, Nevada 89104; 702 732-4656, E-mail: rosie702@webtv.net Web: http://www.greendoorlasvegas.com/ Las Vegas social club and spa. Open 7 days. Sunday-Thursday 1pm-5am, Friday & Saturday 1pm-7am, Couples, single men & women, Beautiful people to be with. Jacuzzi, steam room, showers & lockers. Group interactive areas & couples areas. Theme rooms, game room, dance stage with poles & dance floor, plus much more. Anticipations of Nevada: Janie & Jim, Las Vegas, NV; 702-457-1130. A Club for mature couples where fantasies become reality. Amenities include hot tub, swimming pool, pool table, private and group rooms.
Couples Oasis Society: Ed & Raylene, Las Vegas, Nevada, (702) 617-8033; E-mail:info@couplesoasis.com Web:http://www.couplesoasis.com/. Couples Oasis Society is an Internet membership based Social Club for lifestyle couples. We host private parties every Friday and Saturday, from 8:00pm to 3:00am. Parties are held in a beautiful, spacious 4000 sq ft. home. Amenities include state of the art sound system, dance floor with pole, giant indoor spa, and both private and group areas. A small buffet is served both Friday and Saturday. A get-acquainted orientation is required before attending. Singles please DO NOT call.
Fantasy Social Club: Charles & Hanna 953 E. Sahara #B17,(commercial center N.E.corner) Las Vegas, NV. (702) 893-3977 Fax: 702 893-3970 E-mail: swing@fantasysocialclub.com Web: http://www.fantasysocialclub.com/ Fantasy: the ultimate in social clubs. Open 7 day’s a week; 8:00 pm - 5:00 am. Free tours 5:00 pm - 7:00 pm after 7:00 pm. $20.00 non-refundable couples: $25.00 per day $40.00 per month. Gentleman: $40.00 per day $90.00 per month with no refunds. Single women always welcome & free .We have group rooms, theme rooms, private rooms, couples only area, lingerie, lotions, and essentials. Lockers, gym area, fantasy wedding chapel and honeymoon suite. Private limo service available.
LOVE- Lites of Vegas Estate: Bobbi & Larry, Las Vegas, Nevada, (702)807-1899 E-mail:mailto:info@love-vegas.com vegas.com Web: http://www.love-vegas.com. Fridays are about fun, food, friends and-if you are doing it right- frolicing! We party every Friday(And Saturday) from 9pm-3am, we are a BYOB, on-premise private lifestylers party that rocks. Our home is over 7000sq ft. with a game room w/pool & gaming table, dining room for 20 & buffet/steam table, heated swimming pool, pool house, & hot tub, Valet parking (for the ladies!), private, group & cpls-only spaces, Smoke-Free home, terrific outside patio areas. We have a bar & bartenders, dance floor & DJ and more. Call us and come to LOVE to see it for yourself. Drop us a line @ info@www.love-vegas.com, phone us @ 702-807-1899.
Rendezvous: Junior, 953 E. Sahara, Suite B-20 Las Vegas, NV (702) 732-2587, E-mail:rendezvouslasvegas@yahoo.com Web: http://www.rendezvous-lasvegas.com/ Come discover Las Vegas’ most exciting on-premises adult playground for couples, single men and single women. Find out why we’re the favorite on-premises playground of locals, tourists and Vegas visitors. Party with us 7 days from 7pm till 5am. Conveniently located just 4 signal lights East of the Las Vegas Strip on Sahara inside the Commercial Center. You’ll recognize our clean white and yellow front with the amber flashing light at the inside Northeast corner of the center. Enjoy our Jacuzzi/spa, showers, dance stage with poles, free lockers and towels for couples and single ladies. Group areas and intimate areas, glory hole and more! “What happens in Vegas stays in Vegas!” Low Nightly, weekly and monthly rates for couples and singles. Visit our web site for special discounts.
American LowLife: Bruce, 2753 S. Highland Drive #1026, Las Vegas, NV 89109Nevada, 702-932-9095 E-mail: mailto:info@love-vegas.com Web: http://www.americanlowlife.com/. Viva Las Vegas! American LowLife is an “everything Las Vegas” website for the type of person who adheres to the “Whatever Happens in Vegas, Stays in Vegas” motto. Find out what’s happening all over town including where to go and who to do! We’ve got extensive listings for Las Vegas clubs, bars, hotels, shows, lifestyle parties, events and a complete schedule of fellow lifestylers coming to Sin City. There’s also a community of LowLifes here, visitors and locals alike, who participate in the Las Vegas lifestyle and will freely admit it (except to their parents, and “vanilla” friends, and neighbors. And…) Get in touch with your inner LowLife while you are in Vegas. Take the first step with AmericanLowLife.com.
Dungeon Rentals, Parties, and Play Areas
Dungeon Kink is a private Las Vegas, NV Play Party Group and Dungeon Rental for adults into the BDSM, M/s, D/s lifestyles. Couples and singles are welcome. For the safety and privacy of all members, no total strangers are approved for membership or rental. You need to provide solid references, or i need to know you. Send inquiries to: sincitybobbi@yahoo.com or go to http://www.dungeonkink.com/
International Bondage Club Our facility consist of 9 themed rooms, many social areas with equipment, a VIP lounge, shower area, secure lockers and of course a complete retail store. All of our equipment is custom made and available for special order purchase, brought to you exclusively by IBC. Have an ideal for furniture or equipment, our manufacturers can custom make your idea. http://www.internationalbondageclub.com/
Lifestyle groups
Dominia Desires Social Group: A real time Las Vegas, Nevada, group offering a location and opportunity for submissive men to meet and greet real time Mistress, dommes, dominias, femdoms, etc., in person. The hostess offers munches, play parties, and various events for the Dominia Desires Social Group. These events are for Dominant women and Submissive/slave men ONLY. Fetish attire is always welcome however no cross dressing please. For the next bi-monthly munch, join the group and you will see the postings for location. http://groups.yahoo.com/group/DominiaDesiresSocialGroup/
Sin City Ds: SinCityDsNetwork is a free membership pansexual BDSM group in Las Vegas, NV originally established in May of 2002. We welcome all individuals age 21 and over with an interest in BDSM and the D/s lifestyle. Meet the members at the Friday Night Munch at PTs Pub, located at 4604 W Sahara Ave Ste 10, Las Vegas, NV 89102, PTs Pub business phone number (702) 258-0224, in the Sahara Pavilion on the corner of Decatur and Sahara from 8pm-10pm. Ask for the hostess, Vixen. For group information email Vixen at vegasvixen99@yahoo.com or check out the SinCityDs Group at www.sincityds.com . We also host a yahoo message board. http://sincityds.net/
The Leather Uniform Club of Las Vegas: Welcome to the first club designed to unite and organize the entire Leather Community of Las Vegas! While we all know many others in this fine city that enjoy the Leather lifestyle, and could be ourselves, we are not all bikers, bears, Masters or even slaves. We are not all Sado-Masochists, heck, we are not even just gay men. Like every other community, we are all different. We are all of the above, we are lesbians, we are drag queens, we are much more than that. Now, we all have a place to go and enjoy each others company without meeting a certain expectation. In this club, all that enjoy the Leather lifestyle are welcome. http://groups.yahoo.com/group/luclv/
TNG D/s Group: This is the place for a new and younger (18-39) generation of like-minded Las Vegas lifestylers (BDSM, leather, gay and Ds) to meet for discussion, support and social functions to further enhance our lives in the D/s community, however, all ages are welcome at the munches. Munches are currently being held on Saturdays from 6PM-8PM at Denny’s, 8000 W. Sahara Avenue, Las Vegas, NV (near Buffalo and Durango). There is NO obligation to purchase food or drink. If you have any questions please contact CeeJae at princessceejae@yahoo.com. The yahoo message boards is at http://groups.yahoo.com/group/TNGLasVegas/
Desert Rose Power Exchange: An organization which provides a safe place for the many different expressions of power in love and play. What we have to offer is a support, education, and social group for adults who share these interests in the context of caring relationships. We are a pansexual group, open to those of any sexual orientation. It is our goal to provide a comfortable, safe, and discreet environment where one can meet others of like mind. We are not a swingers group. We do not make referrals. We are not a Dating service. We welcome the interested, the inquisitive, and the discerning to join us as we explain, explore, and enjoy. Desert Rose Power Exchange has a wide and varied membership. Some of our members are very out about their lifestyle, but others are not. What you hear or see in the group stays in the group! Any one caught not adhering to this rule will be immediately removed and banned from the group! http://groups.yahoo.com/group/desertrosepowerexchange/
Desert Rose Power Exchange Personals: A place for singles and those seeking to extend their family in our group to run personal ads and find partners. It is Pansexual - all orientations, roles, and preferences are welcome. We cater here to those interested in an alternative lifestyle and all its aspects. http://groups.yahoo.com/group/desertrosepowerexchangepersonals/
SinCityBdsmSingles: We are open to anyone who is over 21 and single (and we will hold an event or 2 for those also looking for poly-arrangements, I invite them from other groups). We hold a vanilla style event once a month in hopes of helping our members find a Master/Mistress/or submissive. You can get to know other singles and feel more comfy w/o attached folks around. We are open to all tv, crossdressing, etc. as long as you are truly single and unattached. http://groups.yahoo.com/group/SinCityBDSMSingles/
Bound 4 Pleasure Group: Hostess is Mistress Rana, a lifestyle Mistress with 25 years of background. We welcome ages 18-102 (18-21 years old apply only if this is legal in your state or province) who participate in and/or who are interested in learning more about non-vanilla relationships such as the D/s, servitudes, B&D S&M, discipline, protocols, respects, leather, tops and bottoms, femdoms, dom/mes, control, power exchange, etc. We are a real-life/time group based in Southern Nevada. We offer support, advice, and some personal one-on-one Mistress/male submissive social activities. http://groups.yahoo.com/group/B4P-TwistedVanilla/
Adult Bookstores, Adult Theaters,
Gloryholes, Private & Peek Booths
A Showgirl Video (includes preview and fantasy booths)
631 Las Vegas Blvd South, Las Vegas, NV (702)385-4554
A Action Adult Books & Video
1016 South 1st Street, Las Vegas, NV (702)382-1076
Adult World
3020 South Valley View, Las Vegas, NV (702)579-9735
Adult Superstore
2580 Highland Drive, Las Vegas, NV
Baby Dolls Las Vegas Strip Club & Adult Book Store
5901 Emerald Avenue, Las Vegas, NV (702)435-7545
Boulevard Books & Video
1147 South Las Vegas Blvd., Las Vegas, NV
Cb-2000
141 Industrial Park Road #302, Las Vegas, NV (702)565-1999
Desert Adult Books (includes peek-booths)
4350 Las Vegas Blvd. North, Las Vegas, NV (702)643-7982
Dreamgirls of Las Vegas LLC
4335 West Tropicana Avenue, Las Vegas, NV (702)367-8002
Fantasy World Inc
6760 Boulder Highway, Las Vegas, NV (702)433-6311
Main Street Book & Video
3226 Spring Mountain Road or 1147 Las Vegas Blvd South or 601 S Main Street
or 3850 W Tropicana (this one includes an adult movie theater)
Las Vegas, NV (702)383-0601
Shop Privately
3540 West Sahara Avenue, Suite E6, Las Vegas, NV (702)866-9958
Sin City Adult Superstore
4440 East Cheyenne Avenue, Las Vegas, NV (702)643-6969
The Studio at PES Inc (includes hi-tech adult toys, cloths & electronics)
1509 West Oakey Blvd., Las Vegas, NV (702)214-2851
Interesting Links to Check Out
(1) http://www.bathhouseguide.com/gaylasvegas.htm
(2) http://www.address4sex.com/
(3) http://pcdnv4.xtube.com/watch_video.php?v_user_id=jakatax&cv=0&idx=5&v=K21NtX0609-&cl=x1v9r4wva5-&from=&ver=2
(4) http://www.couplesbifm.com/NVlinks1.htm
(5) http://www.nitecallsoflasvegas.com/world-arcade.htm
(6) http://www.realvegasgloryhole.com/default.htm
(7) http://sexinvegas.com/
Gay clubs and bars and links
Apollo Spa & Health Club
Back Door
Badlands Saloon
Buffalo
Eagle
Flex
Gypsy
Hawksgym
Krave
Krave Lounge
Las Vegas Lounge
Spotlight Lounge
Strip Clubs
Can Can Room
Cheetahs
Club Paradise
Club Platinum
Deja Vu
Diamond Cabaret
Eden
Foxy Girls
Glitter Gulch
Larry’s Villa
Little Darlings
Mile High Gentleman’s Club
Minxx
Olympic Garden
Palomino Club
Penthouse Club
Play It Again, Sam
Pussycat Lounge
Sapphire
SCORES
Seamless
Sheri’s Cabaret
Showgirl Video
Sin
Spearmint Rhino
Talk Of The Town
The Library
Tommy Rocker’s
Treasures
In my Opinion: The Worst of the Worst!
Places/Groups/Organizations to Avoid:
(In my opinion, avoid the groups listed below)
Las Vegas BDSM Lifestyle Group aka
Las Vegas BDSM AltLifestyles aka
Las Vegas BDSM aka
Vegas BDSM aka
Las Vegas Dominant Council aka
VegasOTKMunch aka
SinCityAltGroups aka
Las VegasBDSM Community Munch or Brunch aka
VegasBDSM aka
Thank Gawd for Betty Page
The Beginnings for Kinky Play
I certainly cannot say Betty Page posed for the first instances of kinky play, nor can I say kink and bondage wouldn’t exist without her … but I can say, she greatly helped it along.I came across a series of video clips on YouTube (http://www.youtube.com/) showing Betty Page performing various kinky scripts. A full page of them! Check out this link, both sides of the page for about 8-10 clips: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PRR5nTyPStE. I’ve tried to embed one clip below, let’s hope it takes.
Betty Page was well known in darker circles for her courage to wear kinky clothes and act in kinky films at a time when women could be arrested and locked up for dressing, possessing or being in a facility that promoted such un-Biblical behaviors.
Betty Page posed in fetish boots, nylons and heels, bondage gear, and dominatrix outfits. She acted out spanking, kidnapping, whips, flogging and bondage scenes for short films and photography. Many times, the men who enjoyed these proclivities were present, watching her unashamed posing. Ms. Page also posed as the centerfold in Playboy’s January 1955 issue and that same year won the title of “Pin-Up Girl of the World.” Betty Page dreamed of becoming an actress, but a little stage time and few televison shows was all she garnered. She appeared in the Jackie Gleason show.
Betty Page’s popularity resurfaced with the worldwide release of her film biography: “The Notorious Bettie Page.” She’s actually more popular now than she was 50 years ago. It is said that she is still alive and enjoying a very private life with her family, practically oblivious to the fetish pin-up icon she has become.
If you want to know more about Betty (Bettie) Page visit the offical site at www.bettiepage.com/ and enjoy her biography, photos, and more. You can even join her fan club and/or sign up for web notification updates.
Past Jobs of a Mistress
Past Vanilla Experiences
I’ve ignored this question for some time, but find many slave applicants and callers are asking it over an over. So, I decided to answer it, and just send the bulk of questioners here to get the answer. I am repeatedly asked about my past jobs in vanilla life.
It seems many boys want to know what backgrounds in the vanilla world led me to be a Mistress. I have to say, vanilla world experiences did not make me a Mistress, but rather the Mistress in me caused me to select certain jobs or be placed in certain positions. It also has caused me to desire higher education. I believe intelligence is an important factor in control. I have over 102 college credits but no degree. I refer to it as being a career student rather than a graduate. And, of course, that Mistress attitude interferes when I need to buckle down and take a few courses to complete a degree, since I’m not taking anything I don’t thoroughly enjoy. Needless to say, I also sport a 4.0 average. As a Mistress, I have a strong desire for perfection in performance. That carries over into jobs I obtained over the years as well as my own Mistress activities. I trained to be a Mistress (or entered the BDSM world) at the young age of 19. I was already working within and controlling my own parameters in the vanilla work force. (For those of you who are unfamiliar with the term “vanilla,” it means the regular world outside of BDSM.) Like most girls, my first jobs were babysitting. Being the perfectionist that I am, I was able to control children well, plus I would clean up those messy dishes in the sink. I also raided your cabinets of goodies before I left, and I was not above snooping to see what type of sex toys you used or porn you watched. Yes, even at a tender age, I was interested in how others viewed sex. But believe it or not, I did not encounter one iota of BDSM material until I was 19 and playing with a police officer. That officer introduced me to the kinky and exciting world of control and domination. I dominated him like I had dominated my jobs, friends, dates and parents, and I liked it.
When I met the police officer, I had been working at the Grants store in North Las Vegas for a couple years. I was head cashier at my young age, because I was very fluent in math and I was a tight task master over the other cashiers. I made recommendations for hiring and firing, and did the final count out every night, and handled the bulk of money that went through the store. I was honest to a fault, meticulous in my management, and I demanded the same of my co-workers. That gained me lots of points with management - especially male management *lol*.
After work, many of the Grants employees gathered at the Straw Hat Pizza place nearby, where we chatted with the cops who making shift changes at the same time we finished closing the store. Hence, my introduction to BDSM by a police officer.
Being a Mistress (or dominating control freak) leaks into every aspect of your life from boyfriend selections to jobs and family. At my father’s home, I managed the bills, meals, siblings, and my mother. At work, I managed the employees, paperwork, and scheduling, and sometimes male managers. With dates, I managed the restaurant selection, times and days, and how far we would or would not go for sex, which at that time was not far at all. Believe it or not, I was a virgin until age 21 despite my BDSM play. Just another aspect of being a control freak, because those dates were not getting anything out of me - they were giving to me.
Other jobs over the years, showed my control and dominate management skills. I took a gourmet cooking course, and spent some time working in restaurants managing kitchens. But I didn’t like that as much as waitress work where I could interact directly with the customers and show up the other girls with my abundance of tips compared to their measly holdings. I cleaned up with tips and loved it when the customers asked to be seated only in my area. Sometimes I’d have a line of customers waiting while the other gals had empty tables. Of course, it was mostly men, and they wanted to sit in my area so they could hear my snappy sexual remarks about their prowess or lack thereof.
I also worked for a time as a certified nurse’s assistant. I chose the cancer ward whenever possible, then worked in the preemie ward for a two years. I hated leaving each day knowing the next nurse may not be as critical or attentive as I was to the small infants. One day after I had instructed a nurse to carefully watch one infant I felt might be distressed, I found he had died when I returned to work. I felt it was negligent, but with no avenue to protest such, I simply quit. That’s how a Mistress deals with inefficient work conditions or things she cannot control. She quits.
I have also worked as a secretary for attorneys, most of which were nasty boys as well *grin*. They like it when I organize their files and offer new methods for easy tracking. I’m not there to make their life simpler, but rather to make my work lighter. I just cannot abide doing something the hard way, when there is a more efficient avenue. I find attorneys rely heavily on organizational skills. If I can show them a good way to keep up on their courts filings, they practically worshipped me. In fact, a few did in private *wink*. At this time, I had also started up several BDSM groups in Nevada that included organizing public scheduled munches, parties and training for slaves, in which I was actively involved for nearly eight years.
I spent seven years working as a celebrity photographer covering celebrity events for several newspapers. Then money was excellent and the parties were more than fabulous, but as a Mistress, I didn’t enjoy being around assholes and divas, so I moved on to photojournalism as a crime reporter. I did enjoy that until I fell deep into the investigative reporting and saw firsthand the corruption in all politics. Again, it became a control issue. I couldn’t control the corruption and I couldn’t stop it, so I quit. After three years, I moved on.
Next, I started up my own company. My first company was a “rescue” company. If a business had hired someone to complete a project, maybe a budget report, or check for state and federal compliance, or anything major, but then fell through when it came to a deadline - they called me. I came in and finished the project by the deadline (for a big fee) and rescued them from their problem. At that time, I also published several small local magazines including a mini-newspaper, entertainment TV guide, and realty ad magazine. It had its drawbacks. I didn’t trust anyone to be as meticulous as I was when it came to the actual cut-n-paste of the magazines, so I always did them myself. This worked well until I broke an arm (shattered it playing laser tag *don’t ask* *grin*) and could not publish for several months. By the time it healed, I had lost interest in publishing and 911 hit, causing a deep decline in advertising which supports magazines.
I decided to go back to work for others. This brought me to my favorite position and one that I held for many of the years before I once again went into business for myself and accumulated live-in slaves. The favored position was personal assistant to company CEOs. Now, that job is similar to office-wife and a great job for Mistresses. I would select a dominant business skilled man with a submissive personality outside the business. These men enjoyed my control freak aspects and my management skills. In my last position, I “managed” a businessman who owned several mortgage companies, a hotel, several realty companies, and a few other businesses on the side. Our agreement was I worked the days and hours I chose, at my discretion, and he could contact me via phone any time of day or night for advice, to find a file, or get something done quickly. I understood that business was a 24/7 deal and he understood that my time was valuable. I put together his sales packages, bidding packages, legal letters, met with high profile clients to wine and dine them, and guided him in what to wear for business meetings. I managed all his money accounts, his accounting, made out his checks, checked up on employees at his businesses, and helped him talk clients through sales. Over the years, we developed a wonderful business relationship. I hated to leave it.
After that, my daughter had a son who was born with sudden infant death syndrome, and I went to work for her new company as company manager. We split the time caring for the baby who needed 24-hour care, and split time managing the company. It worked well, and I spent three years helping her until the baby outgrew all aspects of the condition. After that, several companies tried to wine and dine me to their CEOs, including the Venetian Hotel and several other large companies. But I turned them down.
As a Mistress, I became more and more uncomfortable with jobs that had deadlines or imposed on my time. I liked traveling, take a short vacations and enjoying work when I wanted to enjoy it rather than on a time schedule. But, I am not one who will sit around idol - I actually like to work. So, my next venture was phone sex.
I have spent the last three years working as a PSO. I mean, really, who better to enjoy phone sex fantasies with than a Mistress who can share her real life experiences and exploits. I also trained others to do phone sex, and set up a few lifestylers on Nite Flirt. That led me to this - a Phone Sex Company of my own. I wanted my customers to have quality, get their money’s worth, and thoroughly enjoy their time with me and my girls.
That’s my job history boys.
Unique fetishes - when have you crossed the line
Vampires, Vampyres, Vampirists, Blood Fetish, Necrophilia or Anthropophagolagnia?
C’mon, admit it. Whether you like it or not, every single person on Earth has a sexual fetish of their own. It can be a masturbation addiction using lotion or shampoo or spit instead of lube. It can be getting your rocks off while being spanked or tied up or handcuffed to something. It can be wearing your socks to bed during sex. We’re all perverts to some degree depending on who is looking at us. Jeffrey Dahmer might find your fetish choice to be unconscionable compared to his own interest in raping and eating his victims (called anthropophagolagnia). And you might find Dahmer to be the worst of the worst.
So, how do our perversions measure up? What’s normal, mostly normal, almost normal or over-the-edge? Some sexual fetishes like toe-sucking seem pretty harmless when compared to the excesses of what many consider sick or bizarre. When does a fetish step over the edge and become sick or disgusting, or possibly become a crime? If the toe-sucker goes from sucking to chewing the toe off, then we may have a problem.
As a Mistress, I’ve been able to enjoy some of the fringe fetishes that overlap my lifestyle like Vampirism. Vampirism is considered a mostly harmless fetish even when combined with sex. The sex usually includes some intense role play. I’m up for a good old-fashioned role play with a young Dracula hard body chasing me and then fucking me. He can even suck on my neck - but no biting allowed *grin*. I’ll leave that for the true Dracula fans. I don’t play with any of the blood letting except needle play, and then only under the strictest of sanitary and safe conditions.
Now let’s step it up a notch and take this vampire fetish to another level: In some aspects of Vampirism, the most dangerous part of the sexual act is when “vampirists” drink blood for arousal. This leads to Blood Fetish – this is when a person derives satisfaction from watching someone bleed, or simply seeing blood on partly or entirely naked skin. There is a large community around this fetish, however due to its controversial nature, it tends to remain underground. Blood fetishism is often accompanied by some licking or drinking blood through bloodletting. This is sometimes done by biting (referred to as “love-bites” though they are technically not) however this is not the norm due to the potential for damage from bruising or infection. Most often a razor blade is used, and then the wound is sucked. Now many would say each to his own – and let them enjoy it as long as every one consents to the blood play.
Let’s take it up another notch. Necrophilia - The sexual attraction to corpses. These sickos don’t just see dead people, they fuck them. Necrophilia is a sexual attraction to human corpses. This 
fetish can lead to grave-robbing and sexual activity with the dead body. If you crave fucking dead people, then you should know, in the United States, no federal law exists to outlaw this act, but several states regard it as a misdemeanor or felony. Ewwww! I cannot believe this has not been outlawed. But many with this fetish find a way to enjoy it despite lawful restrictions. They become morticians or find work in the funeral industry. Then they can use the bodies before they cremate or bury them. Others take a more legal leap at satisfying this craving. Men have been known to pay prostitutes to soak in icy bath water, and then lay perfectly still, deadly still on the bed while they fuck them. They get their rocks off in an ice cold vagina and no one gets hurt in the process.There must be an interest in these bizarre fetish because television shows focus on them. In one episode of X-Files (1994) Mulder is sucked in by the Hollywood vampires, who brings a new meaning to necking when she licks the blood from Mulder’s shaving nick. The scene is more than just erotic, it’s a fuckfest. In X-Files, season 2, episode 37, necrophilia pops up when a female corpse, dug-up and mutilated, is brought to Mulder’s attention by a Minnesota agent claiming it as the work of aliens. Mulder, however, suspects the desecration is done by a fetishist and has the agent put out a warning to all law enforcement agencies in the area. As it happens in real life, most funeral services want to keep this type of crime unspoken and unheard of, because it could destroy their business, so chances are it’s greatly under-reported.
So, what’s the bottom line on your fetish? Do you rate it sick, normal, average, way over the top, or bordering on illegal? Which episode of X-Files made you masturbate all over the place – the vampiress or necrophilia? Look your fetish up on the Internet! You may find out it’s not that abnormal after all.
The nice thing about Phone Sex is you take any fetish you like and experience it as just a fantasy. No one is there to judge or condemn you for your desires. You whisper your basic need, and the girl on the other end of the phone whips up a fantasy for you to enjoy while you masturbate. You can be licking the spoon of the last Dahmer victim, or sucking the toe of a 500-pound woman. You can be Dracula or Vampyra. You can eat, suck, drink or fuck anything you want, or even let yourself die, in your very own specialized fantasy brought to you by your Phone Sex gal. Give me a call boys, and let’s see if I can guide you to ecstasy with your kinky or bizarre fetish.
Footnote: What happened to Dahmer for his fetish of raping, killing and eating people? He had to 
face charges of killing seventeen victims. He plead not guilty by reason of insanity due to his predisposition to necrophilia. He would later be found guilty of killing and dismembering fifteen people and was committed to the Columbia Correctional Institution in Portage, Wisconsin. On November 28th, 1994, Dahmer was confronted by an inmate and beaten to death. You don’t want to be the next Dahmer, or live next to him!
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